Posted by SuperADDMom on April 19, 2010
The stigma of living with ADHD is pretty negative at times. The negative impact it has on our day to day lives, and the people we live with can get pretty stressful. So stressful in fact that without help from medications to regulate brain chemistry, and being on top of RIGID routines to make life easier, we can end up being sucked down the big black ADHD holes of depression and inability to cope.
I grew up not knowing I had ADHD. I was just told I was lazy, and stupid, and bad, a daydreamer, etc. I didn’t learn to cope with my ADHD well, and now in my 30′s I’m basically teaching myself stuff i should have learned when i was younger. Kids today have advantages in the life skills with ADHD arena.But it is still not easy.
Some people think living with ADHD is a walk in the park because we get prescription drugs that are basically cousins in chemical make up to drugs that people take to get high, like Meth. ( drugs that have been around since 1955 BTW)
People see celebrities like Richard Branson, or Robin Williams ( with suspected ADHD) and think it must be a blast to have ADHD.
People make comments about being on medications for it, like we’ve somehow cheated a system to be granted legal narcotics, so we can get high.
As representatives of ADHD, you see these celebs as jovial, and friendly, and chatty. They are daredevils in racecars, or actors or comediens, business people, teachers, even doctors.
But you don’t see us ADDers among you scramble to keep a house clean, make dinner on time,get our kids out the door in a presentable fashion, With everything they need. You don’t see us struggle to make appointments on time, and the stress it causes us internally.You don’t see us struggle to keep a job, struggle to pay for these medications that are far more expensive then any street drug.
You don’t see us search for the 10th time this week for our missing car keys because we got side tracked or interrupted in the middle of putting them away, and we laid them down someplace, and we only realize it when we are already 5 minutes late to an appointment, or lunch with you. You don’t see that we are late because we also didn’t have any clean socks.
ADDers live a life of secret embarrassment for these kinds of things. We blame the traffic, or roll our eyes and say “kids! what are ya gonna do?” or we say ” hey I thought you said <insert what ever time is cloest to us not being late but just on time>, I’m sorry about that.”
We have to do things like set our clocks a half hour earlier and get everywhere a half hour before, just to ensure a “saftey zone” in our schedules to allow for ADHD blunders and mixups.
People with ADHD make mistakes, A LOT. Daily. hourly. We struggle to keep up in a world with standards and time tables set by people who don’t have ADHD.
So, as a person with ADHD it really pisses me off when people make jokes about my medication, or imply that I must be a “happy mommy” because I take amamphetamines to “get through the day”. Or they joke and ask me how I pulled off an ADHD diagnoasis just to “score”. They say things like ” nice deal if you can get it”
So…
Just to clarify…
An Amphetamine is a psychostimulant drug that is known to produce increased wakefulness and focus in association with decreased fatigue and appetite. Amphetamine is related to drugs such as methamphetamine and dextroamphetamine, which are a group of potent drugs that act by increasing levels of norepinephrine, serotonin and dopamine in the brain. All chemicals, if you bothered to look into it further,that you’d know ADDers have lower levels of.
We chose to put these chemicals in our systems, because it alters our brain chemistry to try and put us on a par level with people who don’t struggle through life with a sleepy brain, and so we can live better among a society who sees us as “broken, annoying, and beneath the rest” that need to be fixed.
FYI the hyper activity of ADHD is CAUSED by LACK of the chemicals those drugs help our bodies produce at more “normal” levels in order to STOP the hyperactivity. To bring us UP to a level of “normal” functioning like you have the ability to do just by breathing. We don’t take them to make us high. Bt they’d likely make YOU high.
I personally struggle in the morning to wake up because those chemicals are so low in my system. I could just sleep all the time without my ADHD medication. Did you know there are scientifically proven links between ADHD and narcolepsy
In order to be able to just walk to the bathroom upright in the morning, due to the morning haze my ADHD brain has, I have to set two alarms, one to take my meds and snooze back asleep until they start to wake me up more due to the chemicals in my brain rising from the help of the meds, and then I wake up to the second alarm, and even then STILL, it takes my brain at least an hour to feel functional. When my meds wear off toward the end of their effectivenes in the day, as a mother and wife I still have a lot of “work ” to do to keep a family with special needs functioning, and prepared for tomorrow.
If I don’t remember my meds one day, we fall out of routines and things get way out of sync, and we all must struggle to get back on track, because I go around in a scatterbrained haze unable to accomplish much of anything.
If I take my meds too late in the day, my brain is wide awake, and I can’t get to sleep and I’ll find myself awake at 4 am, planning a menu for the month, or tweeting, or watching movie, because my brain then won’t shut down until the chemicals dwindle down to a lower level to bring on sleep.
And, just so you understand the cycle… once my brain is FINALLY sleepy from the lack of chemicals again needed to stay awake… my brain will just want to stay sleepy, and we start the cycle the next morning all over again.
ADHD medication make us not want to eat as much and people struggle to get in the proper daily intake to remain healthy. This is especially a concern with children who are still growing.
I’m not sure what the Non ADHD world thinks, but having ADHD is not all fun and games. People with ADHD come from higher rates of divorced homes due to the chaos and stress ADHD traits cause in everyday living. Adults with ADHD, struggle in relationships to find a balance that works, and also have a higher rate of divorce.
People with ADHD have increased risk of drug and alcohol abuse ( trying to self medicate a constant sleepy brain), have higher rates of severe low self esteem and depression than the general population, as well as debilitating anxiety problems, and higher suicide rates.
Ya! pretending to have ADHD when I was 6 months pregnant and depressed to get a diagnosis finally, just to not be able to get any help with my brain chemistry for over a year, due to breastfeeding my son was a SURE sign I was looking for a quick cheap legal high.
HAHA YOU R FUNNY!
Oh? it is just a joke? oh. my bad…I’m such a stiff!
People with ADHD have higher rates of being in lower income levels due to struggling through school with learning difficulties, keeping jobs due to ADHD interrupting their ability to do their job to expected standards ( late for work, poor performance on bad days, forgetting projects due etc)
People with ADHD try to be upbeat and positive because we have SO MUCH negative stuff in our lives to deal with. Prescription drugs for ADHD is not a COPING thing. We are not getting high. Shit, smoking pot in highschool didn’t make me high, it made me normal! YA that was fun! Everyone else was giddy and high as a kite, and I was able to finally focus enough to go home and do my homework for the first time in my highschool career.
Our meds are helpers to the chemicals our brain cannot produce well enough on their own.PLAIN AND SIMPLE.
You’re stigma, prejudice and “jokes” are offensive. PLAIN AND SIMPLE.
So if you are gonna look in my face and say to me that my drugs make me hyper, or happy, or that ADHD can just be “cured or solved” with some basketball… well, sorry to be so blunt, but I’m gonna have to say…
FUCK YOU!
Plain and Simple.
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Posted by SuperADDMom on July 1, 2009
sigh…..where do I even begin with THIS one… ugggg… my poor husband….he is such an amazing man to put up with everything that ADD has a part in for the chaos that is often our life caused by me.
IT’s been a rather interesting week or so, you see…I’m hitting menopause…yes, at 34 years old. I’m on the way out of the childbearing years. I knew it was likely to come earlier then typical for most, because all the women in my family have started their journey to “mature womanhood” around this age.
As such I’ve been having a lot of issues related to hormones…typical ones like heavier periods, longer ones, then shorter ones, hormones and mood fluctuations. Not to mention hitting a sexual peak for being REALLY interested and easily aroused, and being REALLY REALLY scatterbrained!
So today the BIG ADD moment and screw up was I drove to the city for about 20 KLM with the parking brake on.. yes folks… totally in a daze… mostly a sexual one, being all hot and bothered for my hubby sitting beside me smelling so damn hot, while we flirted obscurely without the kids aware of what we were saying from the back seat. I drove with the parking brake on. You see I have a check list I do for a lot of stuff I do, to make sure I do them…habits that I’ve come to incorporating to make sure I don;t make scatterbrained mistakes. IF I get side tracked from them,,, my world starts to unravel and I make a LOT of mistakes. So I forgot to do my checklist hen I got in the car before I put the car in drive.
It was NOT a nice moment when hubby realized it… I had to pull over the van and he got out and walked off the steam coming from his head from the anger at THAT one… the brakes are not good at best right now, and then I go an do that 
THAT was a crappy moment
We managed to make it through the rest of our trip relatively unscathed from my lack of ability to concentrate well, and are home now.. kids are fed and in bed. and I’m heading there now too. To take advantage of this new shift in sexual interest I have to THOROUGHLY make it up to hubby for the day we had !
Posted by SuperADDMom on June 14, 2009
Ok here.. read this!!!!!! Then read my rant.
Jeremy Mayfield tested positive for methamphetamine during a random
drug screening May 1 at Richmond International Raceway, ESPN The
Magazine has learned from two independent sources.
In court documents filed in the past two weeks (Mayfield sought a
temporary restraining order to return to the track; NASCAR
countersued), it was revealed that Mayfield had admitted ingesting a
double dosage of Claritin-D, an allergy medication, and the
prescription drug Adderall XR immediately prior to the Richmond drug
test conducted for NASCAR.
Mayfield claims the Adderall XR had been prescribed by a physician to treat attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD).
However, a third drug came up positive during the urine-based Richmond
test. The name of the drug in question has been redacted from court
documents and was not specified by either Mayfield or NASCAR because of
the conditions of a May 29 gag order issued in Mecklenburg County
Superior Court in North Carolina.
Mayfield had filed for a temporary restraining order on May 29, asking
to be allowed to compete while his case with NASCAR was ongoing. Judge
Forrest Bridges denied the request. In the filing, Mayfield’s attorney
claimed the suspension was for amphetamines. During the hearing, NASCAR
attorney Paul Hendrick described the unidentified drug as a “dangerous,
illegal banned substance.”
On May 15, NASCAR chairman Brian France used the words “serious
infraction” in describing the failed drug test and said that the third
drug came from within the categories of “performance-enhancing or
recreational.”
In a countersuit filed by NASCAR in U.S. District Court on June 5,
NASCAR cited the side effects of the redacted drug as “excessive
aggression or exaggerated self-confidence as well as numerous other
physical and mental side-effects detrimental to the health and safety
of a stock car driver.”
Monday, ESPN The Magazine learned from sources that the unidentified
drug was methamphetamine. Neither NASCAR nor Mayfield is allowed to
comment because of the gag order.
Mayfield’s attorneys contend that the failed test was a false positive
test reading, triggered by either a mixture of the two acknowledged
drugs ingested or by poorly executed testing procedures. In their
lawsuit filed May 29, Mayfield’s legal team pointed to Nashville-based
AEGIS Sciences, the corporation contracted by NASCAR to conduct the
league’s random drug screenings, which were implemented for the first
time this season.
AEGIS, which also is subject to the gag order, is not allowed to
comment on specifics of methamphetamine testing as it refers to the
Mayfield case, but its Web site does list two methamphetamine-specific
urine-based test procedures.
Following the May 1 drug test, Mayfield drove his Toyota Camry to a
31st-place finish at Richmond the following night, completing 371 of
the race’s 400 laps. As part of the drug-testing procedure, he was
asked to reveal any medications he was taking in order to avoid
confusion during the analysis.
Mayfield said he informed the on-site testing administrator that he had
taken two doses of Claritin-D within a short period of time prior to
the test.
On May 3, Mayfield talked with Dr. David Black of AEGIS to inform him
of the Adderall-XR prescription. According to the lawsuit filed by
Mayfield against NASCAR and AEGIS, Black “expressed doubt that someone
of Mayfield’s age and experience legitimately needed to take Adderall.”
Mayfield’s attorneys allege that Black’s reaction was unnecessary bias that could have tainted the testing procedure.
Because Adderall allows people to “hyperfocus” and continue to
participate and concentrate on heavy physical and mental activity for
long periods of time, it has been listed as a performance-enhancing
drug in much of the sports world, including the NCAA, MLB and the
Olympic governing bodies. NASCAR’s list of banned substances has not
been released publicly.
In 2004, Olympic sprint champion Justin Gatlin was suspended for what he claimed was Adderall use for ADHD.
Atlanta Braves pitcher Derek Lowe received special permission from Major League Baseball while he was with the Boston Red Sox to take the banned substance after doctors convinced the league that he suffered from attention deficit disorder (ADD).
According to his lawsuit, Mayfield and the program’s medical review
officer, Dr. Douglas Auckerman, spoke on multiple occasions May 8,
during which the racer admitted to becoming increasingly agitated about
having to provide more details of potential drug use. He said he
finally told Auckerman to do “whatever you feel like you need to do
because you have done nothing but confuse me.”
The following morning, Mayfield was informed of his indefinite
suspension for failing the drug test at Richmond. That afternoon, the
suspension was announced publicly at the Darlington Raceway infield
media center. Among the first questions asked of Jim Hunter, NASCAR
vice president for corporate communications, was what drugs came up
positive in Mayfield’s test.
Hunter refused to answer, stating that privacy concerns outweighed any
benefit or effect of making the substance public knowledge. The
following weekend, France cited those same reasons for not revealing
the name of the drug.
The two sides are waiting to learn their next date in court. Before
filing its June 5 countersuit, NASCAR successfully petitioned to have
the case moved from Mecklenburg County Superior Court to U.S. District
Court. Because the presiding judge is on vacation, the case is not
expected to be heard until late June.
Under the terms of NASCAR’s substance-abuse policy, Mayfield cannot
appeal his indefinite suspension, but can apply for reinstatement, a
lengthy road that includes drug rehabilitation and counseling.
“I don’t need to go to rehab,” Mayfield told a group of reporters at
Lowe’s Motor Speedway on May 16, a surprise track visit that violated
the terms of his suspension. “Because I don’t have a problem.”
Ryan McGee is a senior writer for ESPN The Magazine. He can be reached at mcgeespn@yahoo.com.
ok… I’ll try to refrain from cursing my ass butt off right now!!! But, I’m sitting here fuming right now, and as such, this is going to be jumbled a bit I can tell already!!! Sorry, my “performance enhancing” ADD drugs have worn off for the day! <grrr>
So, I never paid much attention at first, cause I’m not watching tv much anymore, but Jeremy Mayfield ( who I never really liked anyway cause he’s a bit of a hot heat, but now the whole ADHD thing totally explains that, and I’m over it) apparently tested positive for methamphetamine during a random drug test after a race on May 1st.
WOW! You think…that sucks…a sports car driver using illegal drugs to enhance his performance and cheat! what a #$%*&^. How unsafe! driving a car, in that traffic, at that speed! WOW
But the thing is, Jeremy has ADHD, officially diagnosed by a doctor and has been prescribed Adderall extended release as part of his Adult ADHD treatment/management.
On the day in question Jeremy says he also took two cold medication tablets in close succession, in which he declared prior to the test, besides his prescription medication, that he at first didn’t want to mention ( nor should he of had to).
So now, because of wording by NASCAR statements to the media and refusing to actually say what the results were, the media says a third drug is being claimed to have been found, and NASCAR is saying it is not on record anymore. why not? did you goof?
But ohh, the media…. you’re so smart….you all rushed to your google, and have decided that Jeremy must be taking, by descriptions given by NASCAR ( to make jeremy look bad IMO) meth.. ohhh the big bad street drug Meth!
OMGZ Jeremy is a junkie! Ya right!!
OMFG! ARE you all for real!!!??? If you bothered to do your research, you’d know that most all officially used and recognized medications to treat ADHD ARE derived from methanphetamine. (some SSRI’s have been helpful)
If you actually took the time to RESEARCH your article, you’d find out that ADDERAL, the drug that Jeremy has been prescribed for a legitimate medical condition IS “technically” meth, or well….meth’s cousin…. enough to have the same descriptions as what NASCAR claims as being dangerous for a driver to be using while driving.
Again, since you didn’t bother to do your homework… here is a cut and paste from wiki.. ( you’d also find it on webMD etc. since wiki, is not considered a reliable source for most reputable writers.)
Amphetamine is a psychostimulant drug that is known to produce increased wakefulness and focus in association with decreased fatigue and appetite. Amphetamine is related to drugs such as methamphetamine and dextroamphetamine, which are a group of potent drugs that act by increasing levels of norepinephrine, serotonin and dopamine in the brain, all chemicals, if you bothered to look into it further, you’d known that ADDers tend to have lower levels of.
So I am left to wonder if there is confusion…Jeremy is saying all he took was prescription Adderal, and over the counter cold meds ( and at this point we have no reason to not believe him ). So did these morons over at NASCAR who don’t even have one brain cell to rub between them look at the paper results ( they didn’t even bother to give Jeremy a copy of) and see “anphetamine” as a chemical compound found in his system and then see that Jeremy is saying “adderal and cold meds” so everyone is just thinking there is a third drug? There seems to be a lot of inconsistency in this. But it is not frickin’ rocket science people!
Now the issues I have with this whole thing is that Mayfield is being called a cheater, a druggie, and being told he cannot be reinstated as a driver until he essentially admits to a drug problem and undergoes extensive drug counseling and rehabilitation yet to be determined by how ever the “good ole boys” over at NASCAR see fit.
He can’t appeal the decision, and he has to bite his tongue and be calm ( sometimes hard for us ADDers when being wronged) and be rational while sayng ” I don’t need that, I don’t have a drug problem.” Because if he gets upset, and blows up publically, and damn right he SHOULD be upset. They’ll just say his behaviour is a direct result of the drug problem. They are destroying his reputation.
I want to scream right now.. I’m so pissed FOR Jeremy! NASCAR ( the organization, not the sport) sucks… and if you wanna know why…go read this after…http://prescottdailycourier.com/main.asp?SectionID=2&subsectionID=2&articleID=68903
If Jeremy is using prescribed ADHD medication AS prescribed to treat his officially diagnosed ADHD, then he has no problem with drugs at all, and forcing him to do counselling and drug treatment for a problem he doesn’t have is basically forcing him to lie and say he does, just so he can race again.
Might I point out to his lawyers ( not that you shouldn’t already know this but)… Jeremy is being discriminated against by NASCAR for a legitimate health issue. So Jeremy, I hope you sue NASCAR’s ass off, and end up owning it! Call Dr Ed Hallowell for expert witness on ADHD in adults.
And for the writer of this article I read who is malinformed about ADHD and medications, and too lazy to research his topic; Here’s some fast facts about Adult ADHD, for you and anyone else who thinks that because we take a medication for it that is a stimulant and is amphetamine, it must be a “boost” to us somehow, or allows us to perform “better” than others.
- People with ADHD have a neurolocial difference in their brain chemistry. Without ADHD medications they very often have to endure serious lack of focus, lack of attention to detail, getting side tracked easily, getting easily bored and falling alseep or gettind drowsy in repetitive situations.
- ADHD medication is NOT performance enhancing to a person who NEEDS it to function “normally”, like it would be to a person who is not ADHD and took it. Adderall for people with ADHD is no more performance enhancing than lithium for bipolar or insulin for diabetics. At BEST it allows a person with ADHD to perform on PAR with the others around them and even then it doesn’t “cure” ADHD traits, or make us equal in any way shape or form. Ask any Adult ADDer who struggles trying to balance what YOU handle easily in a day or week, how they’d do without their medication, and then tell them that with it, they would be better then you. Then prepare to be reemed out.
- People with ADHD are MISSING the essential brain chemicals that YOU NON ADDers have that keep your brain awake. So we take stimulant medications in order to compensate for that. The hyperness comes from the fact that WITHOUT the chemical that YOU have to function normally, our brain says ” WOAH.. something is wrong here, I can’t stay awake, quick, turn up this chemical and that one to compensate for the lack of that one, we need to keep this body awake and moving” and therefore the hyper, innatentivness and other classic traits of ADHD occur. When you put stimulant medication INTO that ADHD equation, and fine tune it with the right levels, the brain functions more closer to what a NON ADDer’s brain functions like and the hyper slows down. It’s not like you just gave rocket boosters to a jet engine for more power, or shot heroine into his arm! Get your facts straight and stop spreading crap!
- Dr Black…you astound me.. what can I say… You’re an ass! For more info on that go read this article, which better says what I am thinking.
- FYI: taking ADHD medication doesn’t allow people with ADHD to “hyperfocus”, nor would medication give Jeremy an “edge on his competition” or make it “dangerous for him to drive”. Hyper focus is generally what happens when we DON’T have ADHD medications to help us regulate the ability to tell the passage of time, and regulate our attention better in order to accomplish stuff and not be distracted by everything. We use hyperfocus to functon better when unmedicated, because basically without stimulants, it is harder f0r us to juggle our attention. Without ADHD meds many of us struggle with hyperfocus and all the other issues adults with ADHD struggle with ( you know the ones Dr Black thinks no one our age have, or need to be treated for.) HAVE ever heard of google Mr Ryan from ESPN?
With the words “ADHD Hyperfocus” the third result down on a google search gives you an article on About.com by Keath Low, with a pretty good definition by ADHD Doctor Kathleen Nadeau. She explains hyperfocus this way. “In actuality, ADD is not a ‘deficit’ of attention, but a disorder in which individuals have much less control over their responses to stimuli,” writes Nadeau. They are unable to regulate their attention. Though they may have extreme difficulty focusing, organizing, and completing certain mundane tasks, they are often able to focus intently on other activities that interest them. This tendency to become absorbed in tasks that are stimulating and rewarding is called hyperfocus. It is not unusual for these individuals to become so immersed in a task that they are oblivious to everything else going on around them.
- By the same standards you’ve applied here to Jeremy Mayfield, one could call the Children’s Protection Agency tomorrow on me and report that I take meth every day and I drive around with my kids in my car while doing so, since I take concertta every day for my Adult ADD and am the primary driver in our home. Before my ADHD medication, on a long drive on a route I am used to…I had a hard time staying awake, and have to often stop and get out of the car and take a break, to wake myself up, or drink large doses of caffeine to keep alert. If you asked my husband, he’d tell you he much prefers my driving while on “the meth” than not, as i get too distracted by other things when driving without it.
- When driving WITH my meds, I actually follow the speed limits and am not forced to use cruise control to keep from speeding. As many ADDers do TO focus when driving so they only focus on the driving.
So you see…ADHD medications for an ADHD NASCAR driver as performance enhancing is actually laughable…it would be like like saying a cigarette and a coffee for a non ADDer NASCAR driver would be performance enhancing.
ERRRRR….this just makes me mad….Jeremy, I’m rooting for you. Stay calm, stay strong, stay true.
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My son checking out the tadpoles on an evening jaunt on a back country road
So, right off the bat, before I go offending someone who has an ADHD child, in the city, who attends school. I’m not saying rural living and/or homeschooling is a “cure” or that you should pack up and move to the country and start homeschooling your child. Rural life is not for everyone. I can understand that.
But having grown up in the country all my life, and having tried the fast pace of the city, the rushed lifestyle, the schedules ” and all that jazz”…Out here in the country, I just “fit ” better. My kids just “fit” better. ADHD just doesn’t exist especially when your ADHD kids classroom is outdoors catching snakes, sitting in the ditch yelling into culverts studying echoes and how sound travels, finding out where tadpoles come from, naming plants, and getting your feet dirty while picking rocks for a campfire pit.
I’m not trying to paint a rosy picture of rural living…my kids are not medicated for their neurodiversities, and they do drive me crazy some days, when they grate on each other’s last nerve and need a break from each other, and I’m about ready to lose my mind from my Concerta running out at about 5 pm, and I get scatterbrained myself, and there is still supper and bedtimes to be done.
Some days it sucks when we have to go to town or the day to run errands for the month, and we’re out stuck in a vehicle most of the day and they are about ready to climb the inside of the van walls. But if I had to parent my kids, in the city, sending them to school on a schedule, for THEM and my OWN ADD, and they were unmedicated. I’d probably be in a rubber room at the nearest city hospital!
Got ADHD? Rural life is the Rx 
Its just more laid back, and everyone is a bit more forgiving.
Oh look…Cows!
Posted by SuperADDMom on May 16, 2009
My son is 4 years old, and never stops shocking and amazing me!
In fact he scares me some times with his wit, intelligence, and humor for a little boy his age…I think I have a mini Jim Carrey or Robbin Williams on my hands here. He also amazes me physically with his strength and stamina. I’ve had to go through the house very carefully and make sure that anything that an ADD Spiderman could get into it, was removed or arranged in such a way that it could not be utilized to save the world in his little imaginary playing dress up super hero games.
Though it shocks everyone around us, it come as no suprize when I catch him scaling the 5 foot high chain link fence that encloses our yard, or climbing the cherry tree in the back yard to the highest branch, or walking with confidence along the balace beam, he and his sister made in the back yard of old saw horses and some 2 by 4′s.
But tonight he had me ( and DH “the mundane one”), once again, slack jawed, picking chin up off the floor.
He came to me all upset after leaving the bathroom, with an empty pill bottle from the recycle blue bin…(no worries, meds are kept out of sight and reach and away from him and our DD8)
what had me shocked is that he said ” I can’t open this and it says push and turn!” in a frustrated tone, as he tried with all his might to push and turn the cap from my empty Concerta bottle open.
I WANTED to say “WOW you can read!!!!” but what I said instead was, ” where does it say push & turn?” He showed me, and then I told him, “well yes your correct. And, you shouldn’t be playing with pill bottles, even if they are empty” and took it from him and he went off on his way.
Then later after the moment was passed and not related, I said ” so, you can read huh? that’s pretty cool” and he said all disappointed ” ya, I can read, but I can’t write yet”
We talked about his reading and he told me he has read three Clifford books, and his cars books, and 1 fish 2 fish red fish blue!! I told him i was so proud of him for reading and that he should not be shy to let us know that he can. I also told him that writing takes a lot of practice, and he’ll make lots of mistakes, but that it was ok. The other day I pulled out the dry erase marker, and the electronic practice writing desk by Vtech, that his sister used to learn her letters, and told him it was his now.. he was so proud and has been feverishly hyper focused on using it since.
THE KID IS SECRETLY TEACHING HIMSELF TO READ AND WRITE!!!!
I’m amazed! I need to remember to pull out the leap pad system and let him play around with that. he found the spiderman book and cartridge for it the other day. I’ve been meaning to put batteries in it for him, and of course…I keep forgetting
